關鍵字:"愛情"的搜尋結果
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關於愛情(一)他她俱樂部演講節錄
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有問畢答-男朋友吃醋了
| 2015-12-29 23:48:12
愛情與擇偶
| 2015-12-29 23:48:12
愛情與擇偶
(圖片節自網路)
小畢老師，昨天我和我男朋友大吵一架，吵架的原因主要是他覺得我跟其他異性朋友的距離，讓他很沒有安全感，我不能理解為什麼他的標準那麼狹窄。我不能跟其他女生去男生家串門子，也不能跟男生聊「私密的話題」，我問他「私密的話題」定義是什麼，他說只要是講到自己的事情都算！但如果要尊重他做到這些，我會變成一個很古怪的人。他覺得我沒有給他安全感，又不知道怎麼跟我溝通，看他不講話，我就問他：「那麼你告訴我，你能接受的限度在哪裡？」並且答應他「如果我碰到哪個男生可能對我有意思，我就不會跟他很深入聊天」雖然談到後來有共識了，但我想請問小畢老師，情侶之間本來就會有跟異性朋友相處界線的問題嗎？想法有分歧的時候，要怎樣才能讓我們順利溝通呢？
Dear 小玲
小畢老師從頭到尾聽完妳的描述，知道妳的男朋友不太能忍受妳和其他異性朋友聊得太深入。但妳覺得「都是好朋友啊！」「這又有什麼？」不過，小畢老師恐怕和你男朋友是站在同一邊喔！我可以理解他所說的「不要跟異性聊到私密話題」，我想他定義的私密話題，應該是把「不會跟一般人說的心事」告訴妳（或妳告訴他）。「聊天、談心事」這樣的狀況，在一群人中的聊天是OK的！但如果只有私下兩個人，越聊越深入內心世界，聽的人沒有防線，在越聽越多之下，說的人會不自覺的在潛意識中，把你當成很特別的人，很容易對你產生「依賴」，進而變成「喜歡」，然後不自覺的「動情」，這個過程，有時候比妳想像中的快。
當妳男朋友聽到，妳有時單獨和異性「閨蜜」聊到很私密的話題；他不自覺的感到很不舒服，這是情人間一種很重要的、自我保護的直覺。換個角度講，他要是沒有覺得不舒服，那我開始擔心他是不是真心愛妳囉？這麼聰明的妳，是該瞭解：有了男朋友，對其他異性，就該適度保持距離。
不過，小畢老師覺得妳有一點做的很好，妳懂得跟男朋友說：「那麼你告訴我你能接受的限度在哪裡？」、「如果我碰到哪個男生可能對我有意思，我就不會跟他很深入聊天」、「我這樣做，你還會有不安全感嗎？」這些對話是相當成熟有智慧的！溝通、能溝通、努力溝通、直到溝「通」，這就是在戀愛中的成長，每一次吵架後，努力理解對方的感受，站在交換身份的立場上，溝到通，然後給對方一個擁抱，我相信你們的感情會越來越契合，也更踏實的！
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